A few years ago my mother-in-law asked what I wanted for an upcoming birthday. I told her I wanted something that belonged to her or her family – an heirloom that I could keep, enjoy & pass on to my daughters. She gave me the first of many heirloom gifts that I treasure. Knowing my love of the Victorian era & English history, her gifts are often things that belonged to her Victorian grandmother & her mother.
Always English & always with a story, the pieces are unusual & lovely.
{A photographer I’m not, as you can see below. So to my photographer friends: never fear that I’ll take over your job. But I did have fun taking these pictures. And I learned three things…I discovered that rocks look a lot prettier when wet, the afternoon Tennessee heat is not so fun for photography shoots & lily pads are not meant to hold sterling}
~Her first re-gift to me was this Victorian brooch that belonged to her Great Aunt Alice. I love the gems that were so popular
in the Victorian era in this brooch – seed pearls, garnets, rubies, peridots. It’s well worn & well loved & I was excited to have it.
~This silver/ivory box that belonged to my English grandparents-in-law (Janet & Rex) was etched by their English artist friend – the same artist that designed their wedding china in 1923. It was later given to their youngest daughter, Anne. She re-gifted it many years later to her sister
(my mother-in-law) on her 75th birthday. A hand-written history of it by Aunt Anne stays inside it. It was passed on to my house
where it sits safely out of the way of my pouncing cats but on display for all to see in a guest room.
~This 1897 sterling spoon commemorating Queen Victoria’s 60 years as monarch belonged to my grandmother-in-law.


~I’ve yet to find a safe place for this Vermeil (silvergilt) Victorian Ivory Cameo box I was given. It belonged to my grandmother-in-law &
she gave it to my mother-in-law as a personal wedding gift. It’s an exquisite piece that I keep wrapped in velvet & hidden in a drawer.
~The same for this inlaid box. A counter for a card game popular in the late 1800′s called Bezique. This one is particularly nice because
of the ivory pegs & inlaid insects of mother-of-pearl & stones. This once belonged to my grandmother-in-law.
fyi: In the 1880′s the Japanese Emperor decided to ‘westernize’ his country so artists & artisans begin making items to export.
Then Japanese art became all the rage in Victorian England.
~Another birthday gift – two sterling salt cellars that her Victorian grandmother (Victoria Christina) gave my mother-in-law when she married.
~This spring for my birthday, I was given another heirloom, re-gifted to my mother-in-law on the occasion of her wedding in 1945 by her mother.
A sardine/anchovy box – circa 1890. Yes, a crazy piece but the Victorians had something for everything!
And along with it, a proper English Victorian Bride must always serve the anchovies with an anchovy fork – and a sterling one of course!


~Although my husband has inherited some family treasures, the gifts given to me by my mother-in-law were given to ME with love.
Because she has two daughters, I feel even more flattered that I’m the recipient of these heirlooms. I think she feels assured that I’ll also
be a good keeper of these pieces & that my daughters will be equally protective when they have them.
Every Bride wants new china & crystal & deserves to have them but nothing enchances your home like a trinket passed down from generations past. As a daughter, you’re likely to recieve some or all of your own family heirlooms as I have, but what about your husband’s?
If you’ve fallen in love with that antique Waterford bowl or that French Trumeau hanging in the dinning room in your future mother-in-law’s house, go ahead & tell her. Chances are she’ll be touched that you’re interested in her son’s family history.
And if you don’t get it for a wedding gift then maybe one day you might just get it for your birthday!
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